Spirits on the abortion issue

There was a time that I was in a circle, and the spirits came through and directed healing energy towards someone who was suffering from anguish over the issue of abortion.  We also got the indication from them that abortion was ok. My personal opinion is that abortion is a valid choice you can make, and I support it.  But before making any choice of any kind, you should give all the options serious consideration. I found the spirits suprising.  We hadn't been on the subject either - it had come to us, unbidden.  Which makes it more suprising. And I'm not sure that hearing it's ok from spirits one time speaks for all times.  And I imagine that other people hear the exact opposite from other spirits.  Be that as it may, it's still interesting. I figured that spirits would be more conservative about it, more conservative than I am, but based on the one experience I've had, it doesn't seem to be the case.  I've been told that such events have their place in the spirit world - things like babies who die right after birth, or during pregnancy, this type of thing.  There is some type of spiritual purpose, some type of learning to be had, and not just by the person carrying it. Another example is a friend of mine who had Alzheimer's Disease pretty badly for a few years before he passed away.  I've learned that the Alzheimer's somehow aided his spiritual development. Puzzling.  I'm not sure of the relationships amongst these things, how this works.  But it seems to.